Never Say Never......

I had a close call this month. And the more I reflect on how this situation could possibly happen to me, the more I realize that this recession is simply kicking a lot of us in the butt.

As it turns out I find myself staring homelessness in the face never knowing if I'll have a place to stay from week to week. So far, I've managed to survive 6 weeks since my roommate took the rent money and left me with overdue utilities and a 5 day or quit notice. It has been intense to say the least. However, I've managed to get two part time jobs and a roommate to help me try to stay afloat. We'll have to see.

But in the meantime, I keep my eyes open for affordable housing just in case. And of course I have my favorite property management company Scottsdale Fine Properties conveniently bookmarked on my computer. I can peruse their website in search of luxury homes as well as nicer apartments and more. They can work quickly and I know will help me transition into a new to me home, should I need their services. It's a little comforting knowing they'll take are of me.

But for now, I take things one week at a time until my situation turns around financially. I am quickly learning the art of negotiation and barter. And it is fast becoming more and more pleasant. Perhaps the “thrill of the hunt?” Who knows? Aside from the finances, we're fed, warm, healthy, safe, dry and most of all loved. We will survive even if we do end up losing our home. Yet it still hurts knowing that I'm so close to losing something that I put so much money and effort into.

However amidst all the craziness, I keep certain values and principals in place, trying to make a warm and safe home for my children while still trying to help others who may be in the same boat as I am, even if it is only for this week. I still am decorating for Christmas and doing all the things people do in their homes. But this never knowing if I'll be able to come up with rent haunts me much in the same way a dull ache in the knee never quite lets you forget that it's there.

I find my faith shaken as I bundle up due to not having heat in my home. I try not to be angry nor bitter at my ex roommate while we bathe in cold water and hand wash our clothing in the bathtub. And I've missed a week of work due to car problems that prevent me from getting there. The same job I've had for only a week. The car problems are easy fixes and I will spend the next few days on threads and forums looking for ways to possibly repair it myself and hopefully save my job.

Yes, my faith is shaken indeed.

Please pray.

God Bless....sigh

Decorating With The Color Aqua

It seems that in addition to purples and lavenders being this year's hottest decorating colors, aqua has come back full swing. This soothing cross between blue and green was very popular in the 1950's and was found in painted walls, textiles and even heavier furniture pieces. But like many trends, the obsession with the color aqua didn't stop there. It was found on cars, clothing and on pretty much anything that had a color.

Today, decorating with the color aqua is a little different than it was back in the day. As you can see in the photos, a little goes a long way. Aqua can be used as an accent color to add a touch of softness as in the white bathroom pictured on the right. If you're going to use aqua on the walls, try painting a focal wall first before painting the entire room. Then accent with pillows or vases to bring the color throughout the room. If you feel you would like to add more color, you can always paint more walls starting with the wall opposite the focal wall. If a more modern look is your style, you'll be happy to know that aqua works very well with black or chocolate brown. In fact, there is blog dedicated to the color combination of aqua and brown. It's called Chocolate Blues. But aqua isn't just for modern décor. It works well with cottage and shabby chic themed design as well as luxury or glamorous décor as well.

Another upside of decorating with aqua is that it is a lighter color and reflects light rather well. This means that it will work well with very small rooms and tight spaces. To create the illusion of even more space along with luxury, try using the color aqua with mirrored surfaces and silver items. The effect is stunning! For a fresh mix of color add touches of salmon or melon. The possibilities are numerous.

Proper lighting as I've said so many times before is key when decorating. The wrong lighting fixtures or bulbs can make all the difference between a cold, sterile environment and a welcoming and cozy home. And when decorating with specific colors, great lighting is essential. When looking for lighting be sure to take a look at my favorite lighting store Premier Lighting at shoppremier.com. They have everything you can imagine for any of your lighting needs. The prices are very reasonable, the people know their stuff and they ship almost everywhere!

So you have your awesome aqua décor. Soothing, calming and soooo relaxing. You have your amazing lighting creating the moooood. Now all you need is something cozy to curl up on and either a remote, a book, a drink or whatever you prefer. But for now, take a look at the pics for some ideas.

God Bless
DeAnna

It's All About The Lighting

When it comes to setting the mood in a home, one of the key elements is lighting. You can have the perfect shade of paint, the best furnishings and all the best home décor. But when it comes down to it, lighting can make all the difference between a cold, harsh environment or a welcoming and soothing home.

If your home doesn't have a lot of windows, try placing mirrors strategically, to reflect the natural light that is available. A collection of mirrors (such as antique) can create a collage effect, with movement and of course, natural light. One large mirror can not only bring in a lot of natural light, but can also help in making a small room appear larger. To avoid a “sterile” look, try draping the frame with a flowered vine or even a fringed shawl. TIP: If you decide to use mirrors to bring in natural light, try NOT to put them directly opposite doorways. Some consider it bad chi which simply means the energy that is meant to be brought in and flowed throughout the area, will be immediately repelled back out.

In addition to mirrors, natural lighting can be reflected by placing reflective items throughout the room. This keeps energy flowing which is great for chi. Silver and chrome are ideal, but other metallic surfaces work well too. Items such as vases, picture frames, and sculptures reflect light and add a bit of glamor as well.

But what happens when the sun goes down? How do you create a homey environment without natural lighting? Artificial lighting of course! And while pretty much everyone has it, how it's used takes a little more planning. I use fluorescent lighting throughout most of my home. This has saved a LOT of money on the power bill but I was faced with the challenge of that harsh “office” feel. To create the warmth of tungsten lighting I changed my lampshades to a warm gold or other color that was complimentary to the room's theme. The glow that is cast is warm and soothing not to mention welcoming.

Lampshades aren't the only way to counter the harsh lighting of florescent lighting. If you have glass overhead globes, replace them with slightly creamy colored ones. There are even florescent bulbs that work with dimmers. For the bathroom, vanity bulbs are available frosted which makes the lighting just perfect for applying makeup. If you're in the market for lighting or anything that has to do with lighting, stop in and say hi to my friends at shoppremier.com. They are the end all and be all of lighting. From fixtures, to bulbs, to accessories, to parts, they have it. Everyone treats you like family and they're all pretty knowledgeable about lighting. If you'd rather shop in person, they have locations in Glendale, Tucson, Phoenix and they just opened a new store in Scottsdale. Stop by, check out their website or call.

Anyway, as usual, Ive included some pics. Hope you like them.

God Bless,
DeAnna

Scottsdale- Arizona's Beverly Hills

Scottsdale Arizona. Perhaps you've heard of it, perhaps you haven't. But for those looking to get away from cold, humidity and overcrowding, Scottsdale is the place to live. Known by many as the “Beverly Hills of Arizona”, this growing community boasts world class golf courses, excellent schools, amazing art galleries, exceptional dining and of course, luxurious living. It's no wonder why many celebrities such as Danica Patrick, Wayne Gretzky, Lou Rawls and dozens of others have chosen Scottsdale as their home town.

And if you think about it, this is the best time to relocate. With the economy being less than great, screaming deals can be made on luxury real estate. Are the prices still a bit too steep? Well, there are tons of high end properties available in other areas in Phoenix and surrounding areas. Many of these homes have a lot of upgrades, are in great neighborhoods. With an average of only 2 weeks of rain per year, Arizona is the perfect place to call home.

When you're ready to start looking, or even if you're just considering moving, check out ScottsdaleFineProperties.com They're a fabulous real estate team who specialize in luxury estates and relocation services and still cater to the average family who simply wants to be treated like royalty. They have decades of experience and can help you get into your dream home as seamlessly as possible. They've been featured in magazines and have even won several awards.

So just what does the Scottsdale and Phoenix area have in regards to entertainment and activities? Well for the outdoor enthusiast, there is hiking, camping, and a variety of lake activities. For those who enjoy city life, there is fine dining, world class golfing, art galleries, shopping, night clubs, concerts and theater. For those who love sports, we have the Arizona Cardinals, Diamondbacks and Suns. Winter skiing is only a little over an hour away. With so much to do and with such wonderful weather, perhaps you can understand why I chose to make the Phoenix area my home.

It's All About Purple

The Color Purple. Aside from being a wonderful movie, the color was once a symbol of royalty and status. For thousands of years, only the elite could afford purple fabric to wear. And for ions, flags bearing the crests of kings were proudly displayed. And in 2010, it is the hottest color for interior design.

In my research, and with this season's hottest decor trend colors being soothing lavenders and comforting plums, I came across a LOT of interior designs using various shades of purple. Quite honestly, so many of them were just amazing. There really is no limit where interior design is concerned and this year, purple has sparked the creativity of so many wonderful designers. This has taken design and décor to new levels.

However, actually using the color purple used to tighten the gut of even the most experienced of traditionalists. But rest assured, that it really isn't difficult at all. If however, you are still a bit leery using purple, there are several things you can do to update your home décor without completely remodeling. Try using neutral colors for walls and on larger pieces of furniture, then add purple accessories. This could easily be done by adding throw pillows, pictures, draperies or vases. This way if you want to change your décor in a year or two, it's very easy to do. If you're feeling a little more daring, try painting one wall. Painting even one wall can make a big difference in a room. Complete the look by adding the accessories.

As with most décor, it truly is about color and mood. If you happen to look at examples online, you'll notice that there are several different looks. Some are more formal, some are modern. Some of the examples have just a touch of purple, while others are completely saturated. Ask yourself what you feel when you view each picture. Does it appear relaxing? Is it playful? Perhaps it seems moody, or maybe luxurious? But the most important question to ask yourself is “What mood do I want to create in this room for myself, family and visitors?” These are questions that should help you to determine which hue would be best for you. For instance, if you are looking for a soothing environment, electric purple on all four walls would most likely not be recommended. However, a muted plum on a focal wall with complimentary accessories may be better suited.

So if you're looking to update your décor in this season's latest trend, consider various shades of purple. It's a wonderful change outside the interior decorating box and it's very suitable for any room inside or outside the house.

Hairstyle Trend Spring & Summer 2010: The Boho Braid

This summer the latest rage for hair is the Boho braid. It's a fresh and casual braid (or two) that wraps around the head and can be worked to leave the ends free and tousled, pinned or made into a bun. The key is to have the hair look just a little free and not too structured. This style works best for medium length to long hair because the hair needs to be pulled all the way from one side of the head and worked into the braid. I also think it's even better for ladies with multi colored hair because the style really shows off all the dimensions of color. The braid is worked somewhat loosely, in a similar manner as that of a French braid. The braid can be worked alone and on the side of the head, using hair from the entire head or made from two braids and worked along the sides. I have also seen smaller versions that are worked along the hairline from one side to the other with the rest of the hair left loose. The result is similar to that of a headband. You can also try working it as a twist instead of a braid. There really is no limit as to how to wear a Boho braid. Just be sure to keep a few key points in mind.

• Work from one side to the other.

• Do not work the braid too tightly. The look is deliberately casual.

• Spray your hairbrush thoroughly before beginning. Brush through and work just before the spray sets. This gives the hair more manageability.

• This is one of those hairstyles that will take you from day to evening with little effort or touch up.

• The Boho Braid is easy to do and stays in place fairly well.

• The variety of this hairstyle lets you obtain several different looks while still keeping the same haircut.

• This hairstyle is suitable for any age....literally!

Have fun!Try a few different variations to see which works best for your personal style. It works especially well with front layering and even can be worn with bangs. I'm attaching some pics so you can see a few different variations. Enjoy!

God Bless,

DeAnna

Interior Design Trends For Spring & Summer 2010

Spring is here! And what better way to welcome Spring than to redecorate? If you haven't already done so, put away those bulky winter furnishings and bring in the fresh, light and soothing look of this year's trends. Here are just a few must haves.

The color palate is softer and even more soothing than last year. Lavender is very popular as are other cool tones such as gray and various muted blues. Adding silver or pewter elements such as vases, tables, curtain rods or even curtains allows light to reflect. This lightens up the room.. Painting wood in metallic finishes such as crown molding is another way to freshen up and add a bit of whimsical glamor as well. How much you add is up to you!

Spicy and cultural colors are also popular this year. Only instead of the browns and rusts, the trend leans a bit towards shades of oranges, deep reds, and yellows. Touches of teals and muted blues are also popular. These colors are great for just about every room. With summer just about here, these colors are great for the patio or outdoor room.

If a more natural look is your style, try shades of cream, beiges and tans. Monochromatic themes are very soothing and calming, creating a relaxing space. Adding textures in similar colors creates interest and keep the space visually interesting. Doing this prevents the space from becoming boring or sterile.

Speaking of textures, adding textures is also big this years. The difference is that instead of filling the room with them, try adding just one strong piece or a couple complimentary pieces. Adding too many textural elements makes a room appear heavy. This is Spring! Keep it light.

Implementing earth friendly elements started out as a trend but is quickly becoming the standard. Whether it's using eco friendly paints, reused furnishings or recycled materials, being green is easier than ever. Try taking mis matched tables and painting them the same color to create uniformity. Slip cover a sofa or chair to give a room a whole new fresh look. There are many ways to decorate beautifully and still do your part in preserving the planet.

This year, decorating is about creating a serene and calming atmosphere. It's easy to do and takes so little time. In today's hectic world, it's just what's needed.

Real Life Notebook Couple

Since losing my businesses I've had to get a regular job to put food on the table. This is intended to be temporary until something takes off. Whether it's the website, studio work, writing or any combination of them. So until then I'm working in a restaurant in a casino. And with most of the clients being in their golden years (our small town's demographics),there are some stories to tell! I'll introduce you to some of my favorites.

The “Notebook” couple is a term I've coined to describe two older people who have been together longer than I've been alive. They were both teachers but now both being elderly, the wife has either dementia or Alzheimer's. She lives in a nursing home where he goes and picks her up nearly every day. Most of the days they come in, she's not “there” and seems to hate everyone. When I first started at the restaurant (hostessing) she would complain about every table I tried to sit them at,regardless of where the table was. She would always harass the servers as well.

One day when I tried to sit them at a table in a Filipino server's station, the wife says very loudly, “I DON'T LIKE CHINESE PEOPLE!! I DON''T LIKE CHINESE PEOPLE!!” Needless to say, the server was offended even though she understood that the lady was out of her mind. She explained her belief that people “like that” should not be allowed in public because they can't behave. I calmed her down and explained that this man doesn't know how much longer he has with his wife and wants to be able to take her out. We should only hope to someday find someone as devoted to us as he is to her.

Another time, a different hostess who is a bit healthy if you know what I mean, was seating them and the notebook lady says, “YOU'RE FAT!!! I DON'T LIKE YOU!! YOU'RE FAT!!” The other hostess wasn't the least bit affected by this but preferred not to seat them any more. We all laughed that uncomfortable laugh when an awkward situation occurs.

Soooo, one day I see them walking up to the counter and I decided to give the husband the silverware rolls and menus and said, “Tell you what sweetie, you pick where you want to sit. That way you can be happy.” It's been like that ever since and she hasn't complained once. Also in that time, they found a server with the sweetest voice and disposition. Not that the other servers are bad or anything, but the wife prefers her to any of the others. So they just take their silverware, and ask where MJ's station is. How cool is that?

Sometimes, as they're paying their bill, her pants will start slipping a little and need to be readjusted. Other times, like many people, she needs to visit the restroom after eating. She tells him while he's still digging in his wallet oblivious to the fact that there are other people around. “MY PANTS ARE FALLING DOWN!!” or “I HAVE TO GO TO THE BATHROOM!! I HAVE TO GO!!!”. He patiently tells her he's paying for their meal and offers an apologetic and weary smile. After paying for their meal, he'll see to her need. It is very clear that this man is tired. He lives in perpetual heartache knowing that the woman he has shared his entire adult life with barely knows who he is.

But one day, as they approached the circular marble counter known as our hostess station, she noticed my necklace. I was stunned. She mentioned she like it. I felt my necklace, thinking can this be? I thanked her and smiled probably a little too big. But I was happy that she came out of her world for just a moment! Today, she was “here”. I looked over at her husband and he too had a light in his eye. She was here and it was a good day. I told him some corny joke, he laughed out loud. When he laughed, she smiled and looked up at him all dreamy eyed and said, “You're funny....I like you you're funny”. He smiled big, relieved and thankful. I tried not to cry....I well up just writing this. The look on his face was happiness and pain at the same time...because we knew this was going to last only for a while.

The next time they came in, she showed me her gloves. I told her how pretty they were and SHE SMILED AT ME.....wow. I've never seen her smile. They sat across the table from each other and were conversing like nothing was wrong. She kept looking at me and I would smile and wave hello.

Yesterday, I was on my way to run an errand in the casino and saw that they were walking into the restaurant. When I returned, the other hostess told me that the lady was asking for “the dark haired lady”.....she remembers me!! They were sitting at a booth visible from the hostess station this time and she wasn't eating much....by the end of the meal, he had moved to the same side she was sitting on and spoon fed her. My heart sank. I fought the lump in my throat. By the time they cashed out, she just stared ahead. She said that he already paid for the meal, and he said that she's remembering another time. She only stared at the floor as he led her out.

She is his life. As daunting as it may be, he is utterly and absolutely devoted to her. Some of us look our whole lives to find someone who will stand by our sides literally till we die, and in exchange we will/would do the same. I'm guessing that there are many more stories like this, however actually seeing it in person and witnessing the real pain in someone's eyes....it's almost surreal. She is a very very blessed woman to have found a love like that. And here the two of them living in real life what a great movie was made about....they ARE the “Notebook” people.

And as usual, I'm including some random beautiful images.

God Bless....